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Making Life Worth Living :-)
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Introduction
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Welcome! This page was designed for people who are bored of reading all those survey things in the web and all those displays that represent nothing and etcetera which I use to like when I was finishing my first web pages. Then I realized that most of the pages have the same content. The only thing that differ are the names of the person ,the background and whatever. So I decided to make this page which I think will be a new project for me. I know that most people write about themselves but they never write about their real life stories . Stories that came from the heart - stories that was experienced first hand - what am I talking about. Well if you hate stories then I think this is not your kind of page . You will bore yourself to death! I will understand since I sometimes hate reading through. If you want to get something out of people's lives - maybe learn something then give it a shot. You can always tell me to change my content or request for a new one. Advices would be good afterall I have taken Psychology courses and I am not new to such questions. what else? oh well let us start.Good luck to us both :-).
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money changes everything!!!
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When I finished College and went to the States to pursue my Master's . I realized that everything will start from a new perspective. I will have to struggle along with the rest of the students, prove myself to the school and rebuild new friendships which is the hardest. I realized that the friendships that I will be making will be my survival mode since I have no family with me. The first week I met three people that were potential buddies and then I met more people until everyone in the dorm knows my name since I had a little party for everyone the very first week. But you know what! I had a problem with some people - people I have met before - people who looked you up from head to toe. As if they were making an assesment. Well, I did not dress for anyone I was comfortable the way I am. I was warm enough and I thought that I had something that they do not have. I had confidence! I hated those people!!! Even if we were introduced more than ten times not a smile could be seen from their faces. I went on with life - I did not care until one day a miracle happened which they think i should be thankful for - I bought myself a nice car and so did my friends. then they started to be my friend they were calling me as if they were really desperate. Tell me about it money changes everything for some people. But you know what I taught them a lesson they will never forget. I told them that I do not need fake friends right now . I have enough already .
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My friend and I - In Love !
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Three years have past I have celebrated our Anniversary for three years now without seeing him. I know that this is painful for me to share since this is a very serious one. Anyways, I have known the guy fro two years and we have been best of friends eversince. The first time I met this guy was inside the car - My mother introduced him to me since he was the son of her best friend when she was still studying in Spain. I wasn't to excited when I met him. I was not ready to meet him because I was overweight and I thought i have to look at my best . The funny thing is that my Mom and his Mom put up with me for a year until they gave up and one day asked him to pick me up.
Anyways, to make the long story short we dated everyday and talked on the phone everyday. I fell in love with him and he was aware of that. Then we had this huge fight which lasted for six months and then I called him to apologized. The next thing I knew we were closer than ever. We shared secrets and we even promised ourselves that if we do not marry we should end up together. Little did I know that he was falling for me too. The problem was he had a girlfriend who loved him so much. The day he was breaking up with her , she was drunk and she pulled the steering wheel from him which caused him his life she survived. Imagine the hurt that I felt when I heard about it. I did not know that he had a girlfriend. I did not know that he bought me an engagement ring already. I did not know that he was telling his family I was his only one. I did not know that my best friend has fallen in love with me. You could imagine the hurt I was feeling. I did not know how to act - evreyone wanted to meet me at the wake. Everyone wanted to tell me he loved me. Why just now? There must be a reason he was taken from me . Now after three years I still look to that day as the worst and yet the best learning experience for me. Nothing is certain we all could lose something we dearly love in one day. I learned something from that experience. I learned to become stronger and be more independent.I learned to cope up with a more complicated heart breaking situation. I learned to forgive the girl even if she hates me and they hated her too. I learned to at least remember to say I love you when you feel like saying it or the moment will just pass me by.
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